Questions

What people ask us most.

Do I have to write my exes’ names?: No - and you can’t. There’s no field for it. You set a free-text label to find your way; it’s encrypted like everything else, and never used to connect you with anyone.
Where is my data stored?: With us, encrypted on your device before it leaves, so you find it everywhere. We can’t open it: we keep sealed blocks whose type, content and exact size we don’t know.
What if I change phones?: You sign in with your address and password, and your journal comes back. You can use several devices side by side: each one signs in the same way.
What if I forget my password?: Your recovery key, shown once when the account is created, reopens your journal and lets you choose a new password. If you lose both, nobody can give your data back, not even us: that’s the price of not being readable. We tell you before the first line.
Does an AI read what I write?: No, never. The monthly review comes from hand-written, versioned rules that can show the exact entries behind them.
Will the app tell me whether my relationship is healthy?: No. No prediction, no advice, no diagnosis, no ranking of people. The monthly review describes what you noted, asks at most one question, and there is no overall score.
How long does it take?: Five minutes for the backdrop, a few more to place your first stretches, then sixty seconds a week and one review a month. There’s nothing to catch up on if you skip a week.
What if a relationship was violent?: You can mark a stretch as sensitive. It stays on your timeline and leaves every rule and every calculation of the monthly review. Support resources are in the settings, never in a pop-up.
Can I stop?: Yes. Pause sets the check-ins aside, and nothing resets. There’s no streak to keep, so nothing to break. You can also delete your account and all its data.
Who is it for, exactly?: For someone who wants to understand what they keep repeating. It works best afterwards, once a relationship has been over for a while.
When does it open?: Not yet. Leave your address and you’ll get one email, exactly one, the day it opens.